How can I have my cake and eat two marshmallows later?
A man posts rage-bait on social media, admitting that he does it because it gets him more engagement than being authentic and kind. This is what I thought:
We are the same people now that we were as children, just in older bodies and with more words to express ourselves with. Do you want one marshmallow now, or two marshmallows later?
It’s hard to quantify “later”. Is it near or far? Will we get something that satisfies our desires, or something that doesn’t even scratch the itch? What if the thing I get later isn’t actually enough for me? Won’t that mean I just wasted time waiting for it? I don’t want to waste time, I want what I want NOW.
Sacrificing long-term joy for temporary satisfaction, or, at least, the hope that we’ll be temporarily satisfied.
How many people sacrifice long-term joy because they can’t imagine what it’s like? If you’ve only ever experienced temporary...